An informative conversation that allows for a deeper understanding of black boys. What’s in a S.M.I.L.E reveals the purpose and passion behind the radiant smiles captured by Kay Rufai at the end of his S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project.
An immersive artist, Kay shines a light on the importance of challenging stereotypes, raising aspirations and the teaching of masculinity in education. His works seeks to challenge the negative stereotypes of black boys.
Through his S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project, Kay Rufai empowers black boys to be accountable. He teaches them to recognise that there is more they can do to see a change in the outcomes of their school life, as well as their everyday life.
We discuss how Kay teaches an understanding of mindset, masculinity and motivation.
Recognising that we can never rid ourselves of any stereotypes and perceptions. We have to consistently be conscious about, and be aware of how these stereotypes exhibit themselves in our lives, and to challenge them when we recognise them.
Kay Rufai
Founder of S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project
Kay Rufai is an immersive artist, photographer, poet, film-maker, mental health researcher and playwright. He actively supports and advocates for the understanding of black boys.
The S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project was born out of research funded by The Wellcome Trust & The Arts Council around well-being for BAME boys in London. The project was created following the governments reactionary approach to the increase in youth stabbings. The tougher criminalisation of youth, including more stop and search, inspired Kay to explore a public health approach to the situation.
S.M.I.L.E which stands for (Send Me Inspiring Loving Energy) is what Kay’s work embodies. Lasting 8 weeks, his project empowers young black boys to develop their mindset, motivation and understanding of masculinity, whilst equipping them with essential tools to maintain their mental wellbeing.
Over the past few years, Kay’s work has spanned countries including the UK, USA, Ethiopia, Bhutan, Germany, Scandinavia, Mexico, Nigeria and Colombia.
His work has been featured in The Guardian, The BBC, The Voice and other news outlets.
Kay Rufai delivers powerful CPD for teachers within the educational sector. He also regularly delivers keynote speeches on Diversity & Inclusion.
Highlights:
- 07:39 S.M.I.L.E-ing Boys Project
- 15:39 Diversity and disconnect
- 27:15 Black boys, vulnerability and stereotypes
Short film by Kay Rufai Am I Next?
Books:
Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty
The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity and Love by Bell Hooks
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